The Art & Science of Innocent Sex


Many of us learned about love-making and sex from the movie industry, magazines, chatting with our peers and even pornography. We do not condemn any of this. We believe that a different way can bring more love, joy, peace and deep intimacy into all love lives.

Most humans are unwittingly programmed to experience sex in various ways. Most of this programming happens very early. It is subtle and often experienced at an unconscious level. These programs are often innocently created by various family, cultural and religious belief systems at a very impressionable age.

An old saying, ‘show me the child at seven – and I’ll show you the adult’, is often true. Many people’s unconscious beliefs about themselves and life in general are created between the time of conception and the age of seven years.
The fabulous news is that it is never too late to change any belief – and thus change things for the better. A belief is only a thought you keep thinking!

Sexual Healing

Like most people, both of us have very different sexual histories and had to heal in different ways. We knew there had to be a better way of making love, and we were determined to find it.
We sought, and we found! We were shown a way of making love, which is sensational! It is also blissful and deeply satisfying.

Anyone of any age, culture or belief system can learn it. All that’s required is honesty, open-mindedness and a willingness to explore a different way.

Effects of Sexual Misinformation

We believe that non-existent or unsatisfactory sex life is at the root of many partnership and family difficulties and even the world’s problems and conflicts. Its effects extend from the bedroom to the boardroom and beyond. This can, however, easily change.

Let’s face it. How many of us were taught by our caregivers how to make love? Seems like a strange idea? Nevertheless, think about it. Most of us were taught to walk, talk, eat, ride a bike, swim, cross the road……….and so on. Sex and love-making are, however, rarely discussed openly, freely and innocently.

At ‘Innocent Sex’, we aim to remove the blocks, the guilt, shame and embarrassment and build awareness of love’s presence. This is part of your birthright and your soul’s journey to connect with the Divine and your innocence.

Our sincere belief is that when couples are shown a better way of making love and then experience it for themselves, it will deepen and strengthen their relationship regardless of their age or the duration of their partnership.

The benefits of this will extend to every area of their lives and the lives of everyone with whom they interact. This is our guarantee to you.

Sexual History

Annie & John’s intimate relationships bring personal experience to their books and workshops. John has six children from two marriages which both ended in divorce. He is deeply grateful for the lessons he learned from his former wives and all his children. He now enjoys a healthy, loving relationship with his former wives and all his children.

Annie (Dr Anne Moir at the time) was blessed with a long and happy marriage which ended after 27 years when her husband, Bill Moir, died in 1998. Although the relationship was wonderful on many levels, the sex became less frequent over the years. While this is true of many long-term relationships, it is not true of the love-making practices that Annie and John teach, ensuring that sex remains a frequent and important part of an intimate relationship.